Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Crazy Life Update
Oh with the countdown in place at just 5 days I have got a boat load on my mind. One thing I don't want to worry about anymore is my stupid wisdom teeth. Seriously? Its been over 3 weeks since I got them taken out and I still have to go see the doctor every week and I'm still on an antibiotic. I had to go back today. I went crossing my fingers just hoping I could be done with my drugs... seriously I could start a pharmacy with all the pills I have. He told me two of the three sockets were healing well. Which is awesome cause one I had dry socket in. Well the one that has the hole into the sinus cavity he said "Was still not healing and its nearly where it should be with the antibiotics I've been on" so what does he do? Puts me on a stronger dose of Clindamyocin where I have to take it 4 times a day instead of 3 with my amoxicillin. I had a hard time with the 3 times a day! haha Oh well. He said I have to go back to him right after the honeymoon so he can see how is going. If I am still doing the same its back under the knife for me to sew up the hole in to my sinus. How annoying. Oh well I definately have other things to worry about. Moving my life to a new house, packing, and finishing stuff up for the wedding. I just have to wonder Is tension and stress always this high? Am I being normal when I'm more quick to lose my temper? and just want it all to be over? Sometimes I worry if I am being ridiculous. Poor Ron suffers and gets most of the blow. I know I need to be better. I guess I just need to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I think I'm just done with saying goodbye and goodnight to Ron and waking up and thinking I don't get to see him till he gets off work, and then its only for a couple of hours. I think I am done with being engaged. It was fun for a while, but now I'm just ready to have my life back in order. I don't do well with things being unorganized and right now its definately in shambles. Any awesome wedding/ final week of engagement advice?
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Take a deep breath, relax, and enjoy these last few days of being single. You will be married for the rest of your life, and if you feel like you have a lot on your plate. Make your plate smaller. Don't take on too much, you will keep yourself from getting better. Make a list of the very most important things and work on that list. When you feel like you are going to lose your lid, take a deep breath, walk away and do something else. It is not worth losing your temper and taking it out on your loved ones, especially the man you are going to marry. This is great advise for when you are married. Walk away and try not too take on too much..... Can't wait to see you in a couple of days.
I am just busting with joy! Our youngest sister is getting married! How old were you when I met you? 17? :)
Steph offered some great advice. Just relax and let not your heart be troubled.
Don't be surprised when EVERYTHING is green-lighted for you on your wedding day and honeymoon. People you barely know will say things like: "Excuse me! This is the bride and groom, can we please get them to the front of the line ASAP?! Thank you!"
Ahhh, Maggie! This will be one of the longest 5 days of your life! My last 5 single days ended up with a few mental breakdowns, tons of crying fits, and I got TWO large boils right on my face! (They were nasty and scabby by the wedding day!) And in hindsight...it's SO NOT WORTH ALL THE STRESS! It's so funny to me to remember back because I was literally sick to my stomach the day I got married (stress!), but the minute the I do's were said I had the weight of the world lifted from my shoulders! I know there are tons of stuff to accomplish before the BIG day, but like Stephie said make sure you prioritize the most important tasks and only worry about them! You won't be moving too far, so if you don't get everything packed and moved yet get it when you're home from your honeymoon. Everything's gonna be PERFECT! My wedding day is a big blur. It's something you wait your whole life for and will have come and gone in a split second, so don't get too worked up about little unimportant details that won't matter in ten years from now. Smile and take it all in! On the day of your wedding only focus on you and Ron and let everyone cater to YOU. You have an awesome mom and wonderful sisters and other family members that will make sure your day is the best wedding day possible! Sorry about your dang teeth! Good Luck with it all! If I can do anything to help just let me know!
Goodness, I'm so excited for you! Engagement is so stressful isn't it. I tried to enjoy it, but it seemed like the last 2 weeks flew by. I just tried to remember the most important things. Some small things may go wrong on your wedding day, but if you just remember that you're being sealed to the man you love, all the other stuff looks small. Love ya girl, hang in there.
P.S. I can totally relate with whole wisdom teeth thing. So not fun!
Sorry I really didn't even read your post, I just have to say, I LOVE the little hearts for married people, so cute! I can't wait till I get a heart with my hubby! So you can't get rid of the hearts till I'm married, k?!
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